“I want a girl, when I want a girl
And when I don’t want a girl, I want a girl who understands that
And that’s some hard shit to explain
To a woman that’s in love with you, it’s a pitiful thing
Until I had to figure
…That I don’t wanna play around, but I don’t wanna settle down
And that’s a man’s dilemma”
Reggie wrote this the other day on his Facebook status…and I felt it. I understand that even when it seems that a person wants what they want WHEN they want it……what else are they supposed to go by??? Should you make yourself adapt to a life that you dont want to satisfy someone elses wants??? NO!!!!! Its ok to not know what you want at times. Its the beginnings of finding what you want. Simply put! Why pressure yourself, knowing that its not what you want? Why let someone else pressure you to want something you can’t or wont motivate yourself to do????
I guess this can be a woman’s dilemma as well. If you don’t want a relationship, fine! I don’t want a relationship, but at times I get in my moods where I miss the companionship. The last thing I will do is have a man thinking I want them on that level, then hurt their feelings in the long run.
But then…you have people who catch feelings…even though they were aware that you didn’t want anything serious. That’s always a problem. SMH!!!
On some real shit, I just want a boyfriend between the hours of 9pm and 5am right now. *shrugs*
(Update: I really don’t just want a sex partner…I want a relationship…..eventually….I guess!!!!)